Blogger abandonment? No, just super-duper busy…sorta

So, I have gotten a few emails wondering where I have disappeared over the last two months. Let me tell you, tink® is still alive, I just had to take a slight break from posting. I am back, and plan to maintain a good stream of content for you to wast time reading, viewing, contradicting, syndicating, or whatever.

I’d love to have a great story about a fantastic trip abroad, giving lectures and bringing peace to war torn nations…however, my excuse is much less sexy, just friggin life. I’d say it’s best left in the immortal words of Mr. Lennon, “Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.”

So, with that said, I look forward to sharing my thoughts with you…do with them as you like.

Don’t Eat the Marshmallow…YET

Instant vs. Delayed Gratification…a life long struggle everyone of us goes through, otherwise known as “Self Discipline.” Is it one of the attributes that helps determine the potential for success? I would say yes.

Do I buy that new car? Do I tell her I love her? (My chances are looking good tonight) Do I spend $3.27 TRILLION to stimulate the economy and send our great country exponentially into even more debt thus eventually contributing to the dilution of our famed greenback? Do I eat that entire Crave Case from Whitey’s? (Seriously, no matter how good it sounds at the time, it is still a REALLY bad idea…just wait until the next day. Trust me.)

The book, Don’t Eat The Marshmallows…Yet by Joachim de Posada, shows over and over again how success is liked to self discipline. The embedded video shows the experiment in action….priceless. (As a father of a 3 yr old, I promise you this is worth it.)

Here’s the experiment (originally performed by Dr. Walter Mischel): A child is given one marshmallow, put into a room and told they can either eat the marshmallow that is in front of them, OR wait 15 minutes and they will get a second one.

Results: Nearly 2 out of every 3 children ate the mallow right away. However, the other third sat there………for what I guarantee you felt like an ETERNITY to a 3 yr old and waited. The smelled it. They poked at it. They played with it. They waited. Then they were rewarded with the second.

Now, what was done next is where the experiment creates some real insights. The researchers checked back in with the children later in life, ages 16-17. What was amazing is the children that waited, were more successful than those that ate it right away. Success as defined by De Posada,

Success in this context is a higher SAT score, 213 points on average by the kids that didn’t eat the marshmallow. The kids that ate the marshmallow, many didn’t make it to college or made it to college and dropped out at higher rates than kids that didn’t eat the marshmallow. Some of the kids that ate the marshmallows were working lower end jobs, and were highly in debt…it is one (series of) measures and (it) is what Dr Mischel was studying.”

I am left to ask, would you eat it? I don’t know…maybe if I had a graham crack and a Hershy’s bar in my pocket.

“ART & COPY” - The Movie

“The frightening and most difficult thing about being what somebody calls a creative person is that you have absolutely no idea where any of your thoughts come from really and especially you don’t have any idea about where they’re going to come from tomorrow.” — Hal Riney

Dan Pink on the surprising science of motivation | Video on TED.com

If you are a manager trying to create a high performance team, this is a MUST WATCH. 

  1. Autonomy
  2. Mastery
  3. Purpose

Whether you are looking at implementing ROWE, 20% Time, or another productivity improving philosophy, Dan Pink will convince you to do it.

“Former speechwriter and productivity thinker Dan Pink summarizes the problems with applying the traditional money/career/praise rewards to the creative tasks more of us tackle these days, and hints at how we might learn to give ourselves smarter motivations.

Pink, author of the forthcoming Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, frames a big-picture topic in digestible terms, driving home the point that what works at getting people to work better and faster at straight-ahead, turn-it-out tasks doesn’t work for work that requires a bit more right-brain effort. It’s about 18 minutes, but well worth the sit-down. It also ties in with the argument to free office workers from IT lockdown.”

- Kevin Purdy, Via Lifehacker

You’re not an artist Peg, you solve problems.
— Don Draper, Mad Men